Some people assume that being obsessed with healthy food and
healthy living is already considered a healthy obsession. This disorder is
known as Orthorexia nervosa or simply Orthorexia. In an article by August McLaughlin entitled “Healthfood Passion or Dangerous Obsession?” he noted this:
“Registered dietitian Mary Barbour described orthorexia as
an "eating disorder much like anorexia nervosa, except instead of
obsessing about being thin, [those with the condition] are fixated on eating
foods that make themselves feel pure, healthy and natural."
Although the word “healthy” is in obsession for healthy
foods, this doesn’t make it a healthy obsession. You can’t consider it healthy
if the outcome will be not. A healthy obsession is an obsession which makes
your life better and helps you in a good way.
The word obsession may immediately give you a bad
connotation. But in an article by Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, Ph.D. entitled What Makes Your Obsession Healthy or Unhealthy Is Your Personality, an obsession can
be considered healthy. He said that: “nobody who has ever achieved anything
impressive or made an outstanding contribution to anything, has managed to do
so without a certain level of obsessiveness.”
He substantiated his point and provided reasons and examples
in his article. Being obsessed with something needs development of intra- and
inter-personal skills. This is where personality plays an important role. There
are three traits that are particularly necessary to help you manage yourself
and others. First is Openness to experience, this trait characterizes people
who are flexible and open-minded, and therefore open to change. Next, Emotional
Stability, be self-critical, and also be motivated by guilt or fear of failure.
All these aspects of personality may make you less confident, but if you are
too confident you will be less likely to think that you need to change. And the
third and final trait is Agreeableness or Inter-personal Sensitivity. This
trait is important because it enables you to get feedback from others and take
others' views into account. It is the secret path to empathy and having a warm
connection with other people. So in order to develop a healthy obsession, we
must be able first to possess these traits that would qualify us in developing
a healthy obsession.
I would like to state an example of someone who developed
his own healthy obsession. Mishka Shubaly, from being "irreverent young drunk" to ultra-runner. He first started by running five miles, then increasing
it to 10 then 50. His author was the one who suggested to write a book about
his great change. He thought that nobody would want to hear his story that’s
why he was surprised when his book, "The Long Run" published on
Amazon's Kindle Singles list in 2011, it hit No. 1, bumping Stephen King out of
the top spot. Experts commend him because they know he’s not the only one using
exercise to overcome addiction.
It turns out that being obsessed can be good in some sort of way, but remember, in order to foster a healthy obsession, we must possess the three traits Tomas Chamorro-Premusic had enumerated in his article. Therefore, we may be able to manage ourselves and others better.
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